I’m Sella, I was born and grew up in Indonesia, and my great ancestor is Chinese (I’m not really sure but my oriental face could proof it so) so I have mixing culture between the real Indonesian cultures with Chinese culture or we could call it PERANAKAN. In 2014, I decided to give all my life for replacing it with the new life, I moved to France.
The country that I never ever been imagined before for living and I really start my new life from Zero, I had culture shock “that’s sure!!”, I need to learn the new language that I ever said to myself before if this language is really beautiful but I don’t know if I able to learn it even to speak with this language (but, thanks for it also), cause of that I could speak and understand several languages besides my native language and English kind of advantage “always try to think POSITIVE”, learn how to live far from my family because I lived with them for 22 years in the same house “don’t be confused, it’s kind of common for Asian family! “
If we look back, I was an ordinary girl, I always have something on mind but never made it happen I don’t know it cause I’m the type of perfectionist or other factors. I had my bachelor degree in accounting in 2013 actually I’m a bit regret to have that major because I had ambitions to learn more about architect or design interior or anything about art and creativity, I start my 1st job very in early age since 2009 just after I finish my senior high school.
Then, I have my part-time university student for 4 years (It made me bored to always study and study all the time) and “I’m Proud of it, yeah!!” and now I’m a full-time mom, wife and a blogger while I’m looking the right moment to come back to the real work life, many things need to be considered in France when you are not French, and Language is always being a great obstacle that you need to passing on.
So, My Blog is a simple blog (I will make it as simple as I can) about the mother’s life based on my experience for anybody who never had trained to handle their new life after marriage and especially after they had their 1st baby, then they need to manage it all alone or just with their life partner and adapted it quickly and when ourselves asking for “ME-TIME” and all the emotions. So, I will share all on this blog, and don’t hesitate to leave any comments ⬇ or contact me here or on my other social media 🙂